It’s time to answer Robert Anthony’s question: “How possible penetration without cumming is likely to be.”
Popular belief states that a man being denied has a very short fuse. In this case I’m not talking about the size of his tool but in how long he can have it burn with the full fires of sexually combustible friction before the inevitable explosion. I can vouch that this is the case but I also want to state that even though that is the case it does not mean that his cock is suddenly useless to his wife, that he will never be able to have sex or ever again bring her to climax with his penis.
Some believe that is the case and would like nothing better than to convince themselves of this (which inevitable makes it so) but it simply hasn’t been the case for me. Consider this:
There are people who do not practice any form of denial yet climax even before their genitals hit pussy. In my first post of the series where I explain how Long Term Orgasm Denial feels like to me, I mentioned that this is a mental game. Orgasm Denial gives you a hair trigger – no beating about the bush but, the plateau I spoke about translates to how sensitive you are as well. I’ve given my wife many orgasms through penetrative sex. There are just some common sense things to take into consideration.
There are countless books on the topic of how a man can last longer. The books on the topic may be embellished with a lot of mysticism like Western Love Magick and then extending to things like Tantra and Kazerra while others are branded by popular pop sexologists. Whatever the case it seems like everyone from celebrity sexologists to guru’s have at some point gotten on the bandwagon of claiming to have the silver bullet to how to let men last longer. My point being that lasting longer is not a problem that is specific to Orgasm Denial it is a human challenge and practicing Orgasm Denial simply let’s you play the game of sexual intercourse at a higher difficulty setting.
With greater challenges comes greater opportunities and even though it may be more difficult to last with a cock that is so very ready to climax it is not even remotely impossible and after a while you begin to get into the swing of things. A few days ago, for example WIC got off to two orgasms through penetrative sex without me leaving the moist warmth between her legs – and without me having to stop the action.
It really is all in the mind. For the most part WIC enjoys teasing me. She likes to have a few orgasms though oral or other means and then enjoy her afterglow by allowing me to fuck her but, not allow me to climax. This is probably some of the most exciting sex sessions I have had. At first it’s all fine, until she tells me to fuck her with long deeper thrusts. There, button pushed. I know I can’t last but that’s what she wants. Very soon I have to stop to keep from going over the edge.
I can’t stop too long before she tells me to “fuck [my] wife.” This happens again and again. The desire to cum at this point is so seductive there have been times where I would have simply let go and blown my load inside had she not been the strong one and reminded me what isn’t allowed.
Of course our sexual repertoire doesn’t just consist of that style of sex. She knows that if she needs to be taken and feel some wonderfully satisfying orgasms while fucking me that she should go easy on pushing those buttons that drive me to the edge in record time. Then it’s just us, no power play – just love and I can keep going for as long as I ever could.
In conclusion then, I feel that the hair trigger we get is not simply because we are denied but when denying our orgasms our wives become that much closer to our fantasies. Simply seeing them start to take control is a turn on that pushes some of our erotic buttons. We don’t need to “get in the mood.” Just being with them is foreplay.