About

Who Is The Naked Husband?

I'm a married man.  Committed to and madly in love with my  wife of more that 10 years (and life partner for 9 years before marriage).  That's almost 2 decades - that feel far less - of building an amazing relationship.  I wouldn't call us an ordinary couple because we still find each other smoking hot, REALLY talk and simply cannot get enough of each others' company.  In fact, very few people we know are as lucky in love as we are and those who know us notice.


-=TNH=- & WIC
(The Naked Husband & Wifey In Charge)
Some other bits and pieces about us:

  • We are a "Chaste Couple", meaning that my wife has total control over when, how and if I orgasm.  Over time she has learnt what benefits Long Term Male Chastity brings to our relationship and firmly believes in long periods.  Just to clarify, we do not live in a "Loving Female Authority," "Wife Led Marriage" or any other form of female dominated relationship style.  She simply has total control of our sex life and that's the way we like it.
  • We undertook a year of Orgasm Denial.  For one year, which will roughly end around May 2012 I will not be allowed to experience a climax. We didn't reach the one year mark but TNH remained denied for 254 days - ending with a mind blowing orgasm on New Years even 2011.
  • We're Naturists, meaning that we like to relax without clothes getting in the way.  We've been to most of the naturist resorts in South Africa and generally steer clear of any holiday destination where there are no opportunities to go au naturel or at least some opportunities to have some privacy.  It may sound like a contradiction - we like to go naked but still require privacy?  Well, social nudity is simply removing your clothes and wearing your personality - it doesn't turn you into an exhibitionist.
Civilization is the progress toward a society of privacy. The savage’s whole existence is public, ruled by the laws of his tribe. Civilization is the process of setting man free from men.
- Ayn Rand
  • We're Child Free by Choice, meaning that nothing is wrong we simply don't want children.
  • We're not in a FLR/WLM or any other relationship style that requires a Dom/sub dynamic.  We simply do the things we like and that may involve someone getting tied up, spanked or have to ask when they can buy something they want.  There are too many labels for me to want to wade into that area to try and pick the ones that can stick to us.

This Blog

The reason for writing this blog the is to explore the things that make our relationship tick.  What do we do that kept the glue of our relationship from cracking?

The main topic of this blog is Consensual Long Term Male Chastity and everything that goes with that but, I also enjoy writing about Naturism, Polyamory, Cuckold Fantasies, Spanking and Rope Bondage.